The two biggest things I have learned in life are not letting shame and fear run your life, and to always push to find your core story. I’ve reached a point where shame was running my life. I had to change the narrative. I had to find my core story. We have three types of stories we tell external, internal, and core stories. Our external story is for the outside to hear. Our internal story is to protect our ego. Our core story explains why we tell the other two stories. This is hard because sometimes you want to cut out something you have done so you tell your internal story. Sometimes you feel the need to shout your external story for validation. But to have a clear mind and be true to yourself, you need to push to find your core story.
Stories are expressions of our deepest desires, and for this reason, they encourage us to become more human, even to ourselves. In stories we lose and find ourselves, we discover and create who we are. Life is about finding what is core to you. Finding what shaped your core values, friendships, and story. How do you want to carry yourself? What is your purpose and how are you going to represent your core values?
I find the most empowering people I know, radiate their core values with how they present themselves, and how they follow what they love. This is why I created Untamed Youth. I want to spread the stories of those who decided they were enough to follow what they love, and not follow something for someone’s approval. When someone tells me a story of them following their passion, not listening to what people might think of them, or embarking on a challenging moment they overcame because they followed their heart, fuels my soul. This is what inspires me to keep finding that for myself. Whether or not I have a passion I want to take on at that very moment, it inspires me to look for it, to open my eyes to the world around me, and to know it’s possible that I can do the same.
I found my purpose to share my stories and others for inspiration. Through Untamed Youth, I want to help others find their purpose. Sometimes the biggest revelation is already inside of you, you innately know yourself and how you can push yourself. When you feel that burning passion, write about it, take action, and do what you love because it makes your life a whole lot clearer.